Sunday, April 7, 2013

sunday april 7th,2013

this is me headed to the diginity church meeting on the way out to the car i went across the street to chat with my neighbor. upon seeing her beautiful easter flowers i asked her to take my photo in front of the flowers. the weather being verrry nice finally but breezy ment all i could think of was how to keep my wig hair from being blown away. i guess with all the hair spray i used everything stayed in place! but the setting just screemed out "kodak moment" LOL.

the next stop was on to touch base with the historic site that i am president of this year. the building is open for tours on the first sunday of each month. thee wee 2 docents that knew of Diana and had seen photos of diana but had never seen the elusive diana in person. LOL of course there had to me one more docent on that didn't know of diana.... oh well.... but it worked out well.

from there it was onto the bakery to pick up goody's from the swiss pastry shop in scotch plains nj. for the social hour after the mass service of dignity.
the owner John is a master pastry chef who throughout the years during his training in the late 1950's has made cakes for several verrrrry well known people from around the world when they came to the ny area.
he only uses real ingredients no substitutions ie real dark chocolate  not coco, and real wip cream not crisco icing  ect. amongst his specialties include chocolate, cinaman, and aprocot rugala .
he always teases me that he prefers it when diana comes in instead of dave.

finally i was on my way up to maplewood to the service.

Mannys hotdog diner
on the way home i stopped at manny's texas weiner resturant ( a full menu diner) also in maplewood nj for a bite to eat ( a verrry late lunch at about dinner time LOL) the usual waitress who is related to the owner was off but i ordered a burger anyway. (ignor the date stamp as the photo is newer - april 2011 -  then stated due to  a blond moment with the camera settings. LOL )

then it was home to cook dinner for dad and me ( as diana) in spite of the verrry late lunch i found i could still find room for some home made meat loaf. dad has been verrry accepting and gracious about me being dressed as diana. although he will ask were dave is LOL. i just tell him that dave felt it was time for him to have a prettier dinner companion LOL  i am soooo lucky to have such a understanding and loving dad!

hope everyone had a great day with great weather like we had!

hugs


  Diana

Tuesday, April 2, 2013

post storm sandy repairs march 26th - april 2th 2013

just some info to bring everyone up to date in our repairs since storm sandy.



5 months after storm sandy our roof is repaired, the canopy and gutter replaced, and
the town removed the stump and filled the hole. Yea!

 due to afternoon drissel it took the roofers 3 days just to work on what you see in this photo (the front roof area only)


( the second photo is what it looked like during the storm )
a friend of mine asked if i was really just trying to hide from the tax man. LOL


of course the town crew and the roofers all appeared at the same days. LOL




the cool stump tool drills and breaks up the stump (due to the natural gas line right under the stump)
but using this tool only took about 15 mins

the following week the other company came to install the front canopy and front gutter. and the town also arrived to pick up the stump pieces. what are the odds...



Sunday, March 17, 2013

st patricks day sunday march 17th, 2013



thought you'd like to see a photo of a lass ( me) in a green sweater on st patricks day.

i had gone to the dignity church service (a GLBT catholic group that rents a non catholic church to hold a mass) and on the way home i stopped at rise and shine a local diner for a corn beef dinner for my dad. Z( even though dad is german LOL) ironicaly even though i am 1/2 irish or truly 1/4 i am not a big fan of corn beef since if it is not cut right and thin enough many times it tasts like boiled rubber to me.
i had originally stopped at mannys hot dog diner in maplewood nj but... the waitress i knew said that she was sorry but they had JUST served their last 2 plates of corn beef. agghhh to the couple sitting next to were i was standing. so a quick phone call to rise and shine to hold a dinner for me and off i went back to my home town diner to pick up my order. :-)
when i arrived home i defrosted a hamburger for myself and sat down to dinner (me as diana) with dad

Saturday, March 16, 2013

the new boots March 16th 2013








i just wanted to show off the set of boots i bought when i went to pick up the new wig earlier in the day!
i know i am at the same boring errand of saturday late afternoon food shopping ! at least if i can go as diana it takes the edge off the chore.

on a different topic
did anyone else hear on the news today about the new European fashion trend for men called "mantyhose" or rather tights for men! they come in all shades and patterns and the commentator ended in saying "what next dresses for men?"
so i guess we have all been just way ahead of the styles. LOL sort of takes the fun out of being a CD LOL
hope everyone has a great St Patricks' Day!
 
hugs Diana 

Saturday, January 26, 2013

a tempory new hair style...january 2013


trying out a new hair style (at the food store) along with a recent new set of boots.


i have been quite concerned for awhile now as to what i was going to do for hair since the beauty supply rybina closed last year. as a cd this becomes a panic since that is how the public recognizes diana . 
i had gone from store to store and none of the beauty supplies could order the junee manhatten style wig for me. so i tried one more store in plainfield nj this time B & B beauty supply and bought this longer vanessa  to replace it with. thinking it will be good for the pool in the summer since it is longer and i can pull it up. also i found it can be styled with a low setting heated curling iron. ( which is a no no with most synthetic wigs or tey will frizz in heat and become junk) what i have since found out is that the wig cap inside is made of a heavier material ( vs the junee which is a mesh) so it will make it warmer  in the summer ugh. mean while in chatting with owner of the shop they offered to order my currend junee manhatten style.  YEA! and when it came it actually was just what i wanted. so i ordered a second. as i allways try to have at least 2 of the same on had at all times.
the interesting thing is that i had gone into the shop as dave carrying my org. wig in a bag. and 2 of the helpers saw me that way. when i went back to pick it up i was dressed in fem as diana and there was a 3rd worker there that day. ironically the newer worker refused to believe that i was a guy. LOL even after showing here my photo on my drivers license and with the other 2 workers vouching for my story . LOL she asked who that was and in my  best diana voice i said that was me. LOL LOL it wsn't till i went to the back of the store to try on the replacement wig that she believed me!
i have to say this is a great little shop they have GREAT prices on everything in the store wigs here are a LOT less than other shops alot like the previous ryubina shop.

anyway so here i am at the food store on a sat night getting used to the new wig. also the new boots i bought at dots store when i took back last years pair for a price adjustment. ( hay they set the policy... got em for less than a dollar since they had a store sale that day)  sort of a lost leader for them since i bought another pair while there.

on other matters we are still waiting our turn with our roofer to get a new front roof and canopy since storm sandy. and 2 houses in our neighborhood are being finished up as they have had to remove the top of the house and replace the second story. i still don't sleep well when the winds kick up to 60 MPH . hay one tree on a house in a lifetime is one to many!!!

Monday, December 31, 2012

happy new year dec. 31 2012

 
i wanted to wish everyone a happy and healthy new year!

also i wanted to show  off my new tunic sweater that santa brought me!

paired off with a pair of black leggins , a pair of sketchers (ugg like) boots and my last years gift of a new quilted black mid length jacket i was nice and toasty warm while during a couple of errands this afternoon.
 
i am not really as tall as i look here as i am only 5'6-1/2" tall but the camera angle with a small tripod on a table makes me look like the jolly green giant. LOL
 
we have been lucky to have only received a 1-4" amount of snow which has started to melt in spite of  the temp  being in the low 30's.

it seems strange to still see piles of branches and leaves on the local streets due to the fact that most towns locally have run out of places to take the stuff since the storm back in oct. we were blessed in being able to remain in the house in spite of the tree that had landed on it in the storm. when it was removed there was only min. damage to the shingles which will require a replacing of the shingles in the near future. not all of our neighbors were so lucky. so i guess it is a good way ti end the year.
once again to all out there a happy new year !
hugs diana


Sunday, November 18, 2012

THE STORM! and it's aftermath! oct 29th-nov. 6th 2012

oh my oh my where to start! somehow we survived the great huricane sandy.
at 4pm  oct 29th the OAK tree in front of my house fell on my house thereby blocking the use of the front door! i had been upstairs at the time ironicly enough in the upstairs bathroom under where the tree fell.


it only sounded like a very large branch falling. my dad calls upstairs and says i " i think a branch fell out front" so i ran downstairs and said " that's not a branch it's a TREE" now my heart is racing as i scurried upstairs again to check for internal damage. which thankfully i didn't find.


next i went outside, after calling the police to put me in touch with the public works crew since it was a township owned tree, to check for any external damage. which aside from the front canopy and gutter seemed appeared ok.
now mind you this tree fell only a foot or 2 from the lamp post that i had just gone out at 2:30pm to re-right the lamp itself since the wind had pulled the lamp out of the mount on the post. boy was i lucky to have not been out there when the tree came down!

at about 8:45 pm the power went off and the wind REALLY picked up to about 80MPH gusts. and for the next 3 hours till 11:30 pm i tensed up every time i heard the wind. i was never so scared as during these 3 hours with the 80MPH winds whistling or rather screaming. esspecially since i allready had a tree on the house and now i was in the dark with only our kerosene lamps and my dad who has slowed down a whole lot at 87. we were lucky in that we have a gas oven and stove so that i pushed myself into making us some comfort food that of mac and cheese. which i could hardly eat since i was sooooo worried..

lucky i had just bought a new hi density foam mattress for the sofa bed which dad has decided to use over the last year not allowing me to get or set up his bed in the family room (tv and music room in our cape cod style home) and since it is next to the downstairs bath room it has been easier for him. sooo i ended up sleeping with him so that i could via a flash light guide him to the bathroom during the night. i had rigged up a small car work light plugged into a small rechargeable air compressor with a cigarette lighter power connection which i wanted to conserve the charge as long as possible hence i needed to guide him to turn it off and on. needless to say i didn't sleep well and it was a verrry long night. after midnight the winds dropped of a bit to about 60mph but i was still scarred till daybrake.

the next day on tue i called my aunt 17 miles west of me ( she is 2 years older that her brother - my dad but acts more like a young 60 yr old) to see if she had electricity or not. when her home phone wouldn't connect i contacted her on her cell phone. by this time i knew she didn't have power. we discussed her coming to stay with us since she didn't have a way to ignite her oven and is in a long ranch house. she hesitated and when i got off the phone i told dad to stay put and not wander around  and i got on rt 22 west to go check on her. with out electricity i couldn't just use the traffic light to cross the highway so after using one of only 4 overpasses with in that 17 mile stretch to enter the highway i realized the extent of the storms damage. for the next 17 miles there were no working traffic lights and really no way to turn around and go home due to the fact the next overpass 3 miles away was a gridlock of cars. when i got to the 3rd overpass the traffic came to a stop and go situation and after awhile when i changed to the fast lane i realized i had inadvertently been in a 2 mile long gas line! when i arrived at my aunts ( she doesn't have children)  she had started to pack but had planned upon coming on wed. and i said "get your stuff and come now before it gets dark". again to re-enter the highway east bound ment using the 4th overpass at the bridgewater mall. first we switched to rt 28 only to find it difficult due to it's single lane's blocked by the gas lines. so we cut back to rt 22 and sailed home arriving just before dark. everywhere one went or looked there were downed trees and power lines.
for the next week that is the tue of election day our days were spent forging for ice and food.
on thur my neighbor offered if i went along to go on an ice run over toward garwood nj about 7 miles east of us where they seemed to escape damage along the railroad tracks. although we couldn't find ice at pathmark i came up with a brainstorm to ask at the mcdonalds if we could get some ice at their soda refill machine. they kindly agreed and we headed home.
what i forgot to mention is that upon entering pathmark we stood there sort of stunned as if we were from a impoverished 3rd world country where we never get to see an abundance of food. and remember it had only been 3 days since the storm!
also upon entering mc donalds we just looked at each other with the same look as the food store as we inhaled the smell of the fast food fries which never smelled so good as at that moment! LOL

the next several days went pretty much the same accept i kept longing the hear the town tree service's chain saws but due to the devastation priority's had to be set to open up the roads to get the rescue vech. access open and the ele trucks in to get power up at the refinery pumping stations so that the hospitals could refual their generators for the critical care patients.  so we awaited the sound of chain saws each morning till about noon only to realize we would have to wait another long night. unfortunately sunlight was somewhat limited in the front of the house due to the tree's branches and foliage blocking the view.
by friday the tree crew arrived and i did a happy dance in front of the parked truck. the crew said that some people were grumpy since it had taken a couple of days for them to arrive. but i practically hugged them.



they trimmed branches while they awaited their crane to arrive and removed the tree from the house. we were blessed in that i only saw shingle damage from the outside. ( along with the canapy and gutter damage)



during this time  our local police dept. was running on generator for over a week as did my aunts town police dept as well.

for the most part everything came to a stand still for that week without power. while doing my wash over in garwood at the Laundromat called "Jumbo wash" i bumped into a medical person and family doing wash  as well who said it was almost imposable to check in on patients since even the cell phone service was spotty or non existent.
incidentally the owner of the laundromat was doing her part to help out as well by staying open 24 hrs to be of service to the community especially since area nursing homes didn't have a way to wash their sheets ether. 

the owner of the Italian resturant rudy's next to the laundromat was also very gracious in allowing the charging of phones as well as offering to fill our bags of ice. 

these and many other businesses (but not all businesses!) went the extra mile for the community's effected.

we had gone overnight from being a hi tech society down to a no electric area overnight! by the time we got to election day we were back in the 1776 era  using paper ballots and candles.
but by this time ( election day) my aunts power came back and i informed my dad that since the outside temp had gone down to 29 degrees the night before we would be moving to my aunt betty's house. dad balked but 2 hours later after gathering clothes he came along. by 9pm one of my neighbors texted me that the power was on. so after dinner dad and i headed home arriving at 1 am.

in the days that followed it has taken almost another week to get over the shock and it is still difficult doing business. between the shock and the devastation it will be awhile to get back on track.
i can't believe it is only a few days before thanksgiving and the end of november as before the storm it was only october 29th.
as thanks giving day approaches we have much to be thankful for. we will be hearing the stories of the many heros during and after the storm. acts of kindness both big and small. some people along the shore line only escaped with the clothes on their back and others were entirely unscathed. the majority though were like us somewhat in between. again we all have something to be grateful for even if it is only that we survived the storm of once in 500 years. we in NJ and the surrounding areas are resilient. we will lick our wounds and rebuild!